Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Signs that you're in Portland
Interesting note: I was originally only thinking of talking to Oregon districts (or maybe ones right across in Vancouver, WA), but at lunch yesterday, two administrators were sitting by me from Walla Walla, WA and after we talked awhile they showed interest in me as a music teacher and encouraged me to come by their booth. When I did so that afternoon, they were excited and immediately had me sit down and be interviewed by a grade school principal. Another interesting thing happened when I was walking past a booth for Nyssa, OR (a small town near where I grew up in Eastern Oregon). One of the three guys there caught my eye and he said, "Randy?", then stepped toward me and said, "or, Dan?" Turns out it was Geno Bates, a guy who'd gone to school with us in Ontario (in Randy's class, I believe). He didn't have any openings to fit us (and I wouldn't have wanted to go there anyway!), but he recommended I talk to the folks from Nampa, ID. When I stopped there, they were very interested right away and asked to interview me right then. So, two districts that I wouldn't have even talked to ended up being the most interested in me. Interesting! I also did interviews with Estacada, OR and the David Douglas district in Portland.
So, now to the title for this post. Here are some signs that one is in Portland:
First sign, when Troy was driving me home from the airport Monday and we were turning onto his street, we stopped at the corner for a jogger -- at 11:38 at night!
You see lots of women with little or no make-up on (and it's just a normal thing).
There are big mountains nearby.
There is lots of snow on the big mountains.
People at a restaurant picked up your plastic bottles separate from the trash to recycle them.
I suppose I could list a lot more, but these were some things I noticed right away.
Final notes: I got to eat last night at Chevy's with Troy & Shauna & kids, and my good friends Paul & Linda McDonald.
Then we went to see Makinna and all the 3rd grade class at Glencoe Elementary do a musical intitled: "Portland, a Musical".
After that, my good friend Jeff Beachy joined us back at the house for a couple hours of visiting.
Today, I'm hoping to have lunch with Ike Graul (WorshipForum.com founder, PUMP minister, Take 6 lover, and good friend). Tonight I'll go see Randy & Charlene at their new home. I also hope to go for a run through Laurelhurst Park; it's a beautiful day and the park should be full of runners, walkers, children playing, people feeding birds. . .
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Great weekend!
As it turns out, I am the first of five guys that are being brought in. So, they have four more weeks in a row to do this, four more guys to try out (and they are gonna be really tired after doing this for five consecutive weeks!). I guess we need the virtue of patience as we wait for a month or more to hear what they will do there.
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Tomorrow I fly to Portland to go to a big teacher's job fair. They will have something like 216 districts there to meet and interview teachers. I'm going to take my resume (& Lani's too) and see how God leads and blesses on this pathway too. It's kind of hard to know just what to do. I still have it in my heart to be a full-time worship leader, but there are reasons that returning to the teaching field might be the way to go (we could bless a smaller church, we'd be close to family, we'd be ministering in "secular" jobs, etc.). I'm praying daily for God's wisdom, leading, and blessing.
Friday, March 31, 2006
Oklahoma!
Thanks for your prayers!
Thursday, March 30, 2006
College Choir memories
Talk about your "memory lane"! I found the box of records and pulled out all the ones from Columbia Christian College, where Lani and I both sang in the Concert Choir, Joyful Noise, and His Heirs groups that my dad directed. Just reading through all the song titles and looking at the pictures of the groups filled my head with music and good memories. I saw some peoples' faces that I haven't thought about in years (and a couple that I couldn't remember their names). What was amazing was how many songs just came right back as soon as I read the title. I could even picture singing them in certain places.
Eventually I made it back inside with the album, "Glorify the Lord" in my hands. The first track is the "All That Hath Life & Breath. . ." that Hannah is learning. So we put it on and Lani and I kind of sang along. Then we played it again for Hannah without singing, so she could hear it. And then we just listened to most of the album with Hannah and Micah there too. I dropped the needle on "Set Down Servant", a song which I had a solo on, and Micah and Hannah didn't think it sounded like me at all! Micah actually didn't realize for awhile that this was a recording that Lani and I were both singing on; he was wondering why we knew all these old songs.
So, it was a fun time listening to our old college choir and recalling friends and choir tours and yellow tuxes and all these songs. And you know, that choir sounded pretty good too!
Tuesday, March 28, 2006
Faithwalkin'
It rained most all day here. . . and I was thankful because yesterday I planted a bunch of new flowers in our flowerbeds and patched ugly places in our front lawn with new grass. Thank God for small blessings.
Saturday, March 25, 2006
Just a nice Saturday
This week I subbed two days, but times in 5th grade classrooms. I kind of like that age-level. Friday I was actually in Lani's building and was her "teaching partner" (our classes traded back and forth; she teaches math/science and I did language arts/social studies). I've met all the other 5th grade team there and it was fun to work with them.
I'm enjoying the NCAA tourney! Just now saw UCLA finish off Memphis! Go Pac-10. I still can't believe Gonzaga lost that game to them Thursday though.
A week from today Lani and I will be in Tulsa interviewing with the Memorial Drive C of C. Some odd things about that weekend: we'll be doing the interview on April Fool's day and daylight savings time begins (so Sunday morning will feel especially early!).
God's blessings to you!
Thursday, March 23, 2006
American Idol thoughts
I really dislike the regional, qualifying-event shows. What a big, staged farce! They show about 2/3 of the really terrible performers just for the allure & amusement and I can't stand these shows; I could turn it off and walk away at any moment. On the other hand, once they got down to the top 24 or so, then it was all pretty good.
Here are my comments at this point:
I'm so glad Kevin (a.k.a. "Chicken Little") is gone! I was cringing every time I heard him sing because of the pitch problems (and as Simon says, "This is a singing competition.").
When they had the bottom three standing there together, my son Caleb (age 10) was terribly sad, saying, "Oh, I don't want either of my favorites (Kevin & Bucky) to get kicked off. . ." I wanted to laugh & cry at the same time!
Ace has got to go! Again, he's just not a strong singer. Obviously, he's getting by on his looks. And my favorites: Mandisa (can she ever sing!), Elliott (looks odd, but has impressive vocal style & agility), and Chris (just seems like a pro already).
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Here's a great verse for today:
Tuesday, March 21, 2006
Jeremiah 17:7-8
Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought. -- Jeremiah 17:7-8
Keep your trust in the Lord!
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I've been playing with my blog a bit. Did you notice the Flickr pictures box on the sidebar? (I got that idea from Ike Graul's blog, then had to figure out how to do it!). I tried to change the look a little, but only managed to change my overall background color (and then had to figure out how to change all the "rounders" or corners, since they weren't black before). I don't know much of anything about HTML, so whatever I attempt is trial and error. I'd love to have some sort of graphic in my top header box, but am not even sure where to begin. Maybe on some rainy day when I'm not subbing, I'll explore the template code again.
Sunday, March 19, 2006
Final Four and more!
Yesterday I watched a ton of basketball and then at night's end I was feeling kind of guilty about it. As I prayed, I was confessing to God that all this basketball wasn't really that important and that it's all just a game for fun. And then I heard this question: "So why did you spend so much time watching it if it's not really that important?" It was hard to come up with any reasonable answer. Today I watched some games, but I folded laundry and did some other chores while it was all going on.
I'm loving the free games via computer video feed. I'll keep the CBS-televised game on and then select an online game that I wouldn't otherwise get to see. Sometimes the one on the computer is more fun to watch (and you can switch back and forth between 2 or 3 online games at once). I suppose we'll all get hooked on these free video broadcasts this year and then next year they'll charge a fee for them.
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We had a good worship experience at Spring Woodlands today. I introduced a new arrangement that I'd done of "We Want to See Jesus Lifted High". We'll come back and do it again in a couple of weeks. Carl did a great job teaching about "Celebrate Suffering". I think we were all challenged to have an attitude like Paul, Silas, and many early Christians who were positive in the midst of intense trials and suffering. Like Carl said, "I'm not there yet, but I want to be more like that!"
Friday, March 17, 2006
Latest News
Remember your Jr. High days? To start 2nd period, they came on the intercom and said that this pinching thing had to stop, or students would be charged with physical assault (remember it is St. Patrick's Day today!). Ah, the joys and craziness of that age.
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So, here's the latest on my job search: I have an interview/try-out scheduled at the Memorial Drive Church of Christ in Tulsa, OK on the first weekend in April (yes, I'll be interviewing on April Fool's Day!). Seems like some great people there and a healthy church.
I've had some good e-mail correspondence with the senior minister at the Norkenzie Christian Church in Eugene, OR. I don't know how fast they'll be moving along, but it also seems like a good church (in a city that really needs the light of Christ!).
My back-up plan has been to seek out a music teaching job back in Oregon. I've started watching for openings there and have considered going to a big teachers' job fair there on April 4 & 5. My first desire is still to find a full-time worship-leading position, but I also need to take care of my family and so I'm ready to go the teaching route if needed. And too, God may lead me in that direction for His purposes too. We'll just keep praying and see what doors open up and which ones get closed.
To my Montana relatives: Go Griz! (Montana won an NCAA tourney BBall game for the first time since 1970-something!).
Tuesday, March 14, 2006
Today's blessings
Seemed like a great time of worship Sunday (especially during 2nd service). The video testimony of Jeff Pleshek was especially heart-touching and inspiring. Jeff has some sort of untreatable or incurable brain cancer, but also has a great faith in God!
Wherever I go, I'm sure gonna miss the excellent video production done by Cindy Cochran. She typically produces two special videos per week (writing scripts, shooting the footage, then editing/mixing the finished product) and they are incredibly well done!
Our church staff ate lunch today at the new Red Robin here in The Woodlands. Red Robin was one of our favorite restaurants back in Portland (in fact, Lani & I ate our first meal together there as a married couple -- we were going to eat at a fancy restaurant, but opted at the last minute to go to a favorite place where we were comfortable). Sitting in this new Red Robin (it opened two days ago), I was reminded of many other times, places, & people that I've eaten with at Red Robin. It was a good flood of memories!
Friday, March 10, 2006
Busy week!
Since she had time off, we decided to do some painting in our house. So, we painted ceilings and walls in three bedrooms and the master bath. We started painting on Sunday and finished on Wed. night (er. . . actually Thursday morning, since it was after 1:00 a.m.!). My shoulders and back are still sore from painting over my head! Also, we cleared out gobs of stuff from these rooms. All this is to get ready to put our house up for sale. Even though we don't know where we're going, we feel that we need to be ready to move and don't want to be stuck with a house that's not sold.
Also, Lani's mom, Gladys, and her sister, Shauna, and her brother Brian's wife, Eryann, are all here for a few days, along with Brian & Eryann's youngest son, Jaden. They got here Wednesday night and leave next Tuesday. Today we went out to Galveston for the day. It was a pretty nice time there with temps in the 70's. We ate at Joe's Crab Shack, played on the beach and collected shells, and then walked and shopped on the "Strand".
Now for some job news. After a few days with no worship jobs in sight to even apply for, I've had three pop up in the last two days. One with a Christian church in Eugene, OR (I saw their listing on WorshipLeaderJobs.com), one inquiry from the First Baptist Church in Bend, OR (they had my name in their files from when my brother attended there two years ago), and today an inquiry from an elder with the Memorial Drive Church of Christ in Tulsa, OK (my name was given to him by a fellow WF member). So. . . now to do some paperwork, some prayer, and see if any of these are directions I'm supposed to head in. I've mostly only applied previously for jobs within the C of C (the previous exception was a Bible Church in Portland where I knew several people); now I've got to carefully consider how to proceed with these possibilities. I'm thinking that I should go ahead with these and see how God leads, blesses, and directs.
Monday, March 06, 2006
What makes a song connect?
Friday, March 03, 2006
I found out that I'm no longer being considered for the worship leading job at the Eastside C of C in Colorado Springs. The note I got just said they had other applicants who better matched what they are looking for. I was a little bummed about it -- rejection always feels a bit personal -- but trust fully that God is in control and that that must not have been the right place for me either. On a more positive note for me, one of the Spring Woodlands praise team members (who can't always come to rehearsal due to his work schedule) just realized last night at practice that they had offered that job to another guy and that I wouldn't be there after April. He told Lani that he was really, sincerely disappointed because he had been pulling for me all along. It was kind of funny to see him just find out the news, but it was kind of a pat on the back to hear his reaction. Two church members came by my office yesterday just to say good things to me and tell me how much they enjoyed my leading there (one said he hadn't counted on how much he and others would start liking me). Now if I can just find a place with a job opening that has such open arms!
Wednesday, March 01, 2006
Back in the Classroom again
I got a great first subbing assignment. Only had eight students, since they're all from Spanish-speaking families (though they all seemed to know English pretty well), and they had an Spanish-speaking aide help for one hour in the morning and a different one help for an hour and 15 minutes in the afternoon. I'd be happy to take that job again any time! It was quite chaotic all around my classroom, however, as there were subs in all three of the adjacent rooms in that quad area and in most of the rooms up and down the hallway (seems all the teachers were pulled out for a training). So while I was enjoying a pretty easy ride, I heard some wildness here and there around me and saw one sub have to yell at her kids toward the end of the day. Funnest part of the day was all the 5th graders who peeked in my room and said, "Are you Ms. Dalzell's husband?" Recess duty was a little warm outside today (must have been about 80), but I can hardly imagine how it is in August or May!
Saturday, February 25, 2006
A Case for Acappella & Instrumental Worship
Jones' six chapter book (only 61 pages long) explains his thinking by telling his own story and offers an overview of the traditional C of C position(s) and then his more enlightened view. The six chapters deal with 1) Jones' own experience 2) Methods of "Interpretation" 3) What the Bible says on the issue 4) How church history bears on this issue 5) "Entertainment" (what it is and whether that's bad) 6) The "Division" over this issue and how we might reunite. I found this short book to reaffirm most of the positions I've come to believe on this issue. While Jones now advocates the use of instrumental music in worship, he still maintains that those who don't use instruments should be respected for their view and that we all should be able to practice unity, if not in our actual assemblies then at least in working together in other ways. Jones' own church, the Northwest Church of Christ in Seattle, recently merged with the Shoreline Christian Church. They now have a combined leadership and ministries, yet offer two worship services representing their acappella and instrumental heritages.
I'd be happy to share this book with any of you nearby that might like to read it (it'll probably take you only about an hour or so to read).
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I had fun Friday afternoon doing an arrangement of "We Want to See Jesus Lifted High". It's a pretty pumped up worship song that's been out for quite awhile, but I didn't seem to have an acappella arrangement of it anywhere.
Friday, February 24, 2006
Post-ACU
The best classes I attended were Jack Reese & Ike's class on worship/hymnody, the Restoration Unity Forum, and the Kairos Church planting. Best worship experience was the Taize service on Tuesday night in the Chapel on the Hill. Best meal was the "$2.99 Taco Plate" at Rosa's (although BBQ at Harold's was a good experience too!).
I shook lots of hands and inquired often about worship leading opportunites. No one seemed to have or be aware of any new full-time job leads, but several people invited me to come and be a volunteer worship leader at their church. I may end up teaching again and volunteering for a church, but at this time I'm still praying and looking for a full-time ministry position.
I also came home with a head cold and feel stuffy and achy today. I guess that might have come from all the hand-shaking!
Saturday, February 18, 2006
ACU Lectureships
So. . . keep me in your prayers (and pray for Lani as she's here at home for a few days with all the kids!). And I probably won't have a chance to blog for a few days!
Thursday, February 16, 2006
Things that get you excited
I can tell when I'm really wrapped up in something because I don't want to put it down or walk away from it. I'll ignore other things that I could or should be doing to keep doing this. I might work right through meal times or late into the night. And I feel good about the experience while I'm doing it and after I'm finished.
Yesterday (and part of today) I've been doing an arrangement of the song, "Can't Keep a Good Man Down" (performed by Newsong, when Russ Lee was still with them -- what a voice!). I spent hours yesterday tediously setting up the layout and entering notes. I love doing this (and I think this one will turn out pretty good, as long as there's a gifted soloist to present it). I could keep at this for hours and hours, maybe days and days, if it weren't for all the rest of "life" that needs my attention too. Sometimes I get like this when I'm working on home improvement/handyman projects (not maintenance like plumbing, but like when you're building something). Occasionally, I might get this drawn in by a movie, a TV show, or a book ("24" is doing this to me this year).
So, what is it for you? Is it something creative (building, song-writing, poetry, writing, etc.)? Is it something engaging like a good book or movie?
Monday, February 13, 2006
Tax Time
Other notes:
In the Texas Master Chorale we're rehearsing "The Chichester Psalms" by Leonard Bernstein. It's tough! Not only are we dealing with strange tonality and lots of changing meters, but on top of that, it's in Hebrew!
We received a generous gift of support from some friends today (a "Valentine", they said). I'm still moved by the caring and love and support that so many have shown us. We are trying to be more and more careful about how we spend money because it feels like we're spending other people's money. Hmm. . . maybe we should have that in mind all the time; after all, every good gift is from our Father!
Sunday, February 12, 2006
It's all good!
Yesterday my good friend, Lyle Jarvis, flew into Houston to pick up a car he'd bought through eBay. Of course, I was happy to pick him up at the airport and get to spend some time with him. He came with my family to see the new Pink Panther movie after we got his car. Then we just enjoyed visiting and watching the Olympics. After spending the night and coming to church with us this morning, he was off in his new purchase, headed back to Amarillo.
Worship this morning was great! Especially in our second service today it seemed like there was both excitement and Spirit. Also, I was blessed to have several dear families come visit at Spring Woodlands today; it was encouraging to receive their hugs and kind words. We finished our services today with "This is How We Overcome". I'd never led this one before, but always enjoyed singing it at Zoe events. It was fun and encouraging to do it today.
Tonight we had a "Chili Cook-Off" event at Spring Woodlands. And as part of that, they asked several staff-member couples to participate in a "Not-So-Newlyweds Game". So Lani and I were among the six teams and WE WON! I guess we know each other pretty well (although we had to survive a playoff against the youth minister and his wife)!
I still don't know where my next job will be or where we'll be living, but it's all good. God is caring for and blessing us one day at a time.
Friday, February 10, 2006
Rrrrrriinnnnngg!
It's raining today -- which is good because we need it -- but the weather reporters are cracking me up with their joking about winter coming and "Siberian" air (yes, they said that this morning). It's supposed to get down to a high of 52 tomorrow. 52! OK, the overnight lows might get below freezing on Saturday night, but "Siberian"??? I think people here have led a cold-sheltered life!
At our Praise Team rehearsal last night, one lady shared that she and her husband are going to get a divorce and several others shared prayer requests for spouses or friends who were dealing with cancer, horrible back problems, surgeries, etc. It sure made me realize that my own problems aren't so bad at all. I'm very blessed and thankful. At the same time, it sure tugs at my heart to hear what others are dealing with. What an awesome God we have who cares for us all!
Wednesday, February 08, 2006
Four things. . .
Here are my responses:
Four jobs you have had in your life:
1. Clerk/stocker at Hardware Joe's True Value Hardware
2. Summer Singer (for four years during college)
3. Music Teacher/Choir Director
4. Worship Leader & Children's Minister
Four Movies you would watch over and over:
1. Princess Bride
2. The Quest for the Holy Grail (Monty Python)
3. Napoleon Dynamite
4. Star Wars & Lord of the Rings movies (we do watch them over & over & over. . .)
Four Books you could read over and over:
1. The Psalms
2. The Gospels
3. The "Pastoral Epistles"
4. Frank Peretti books
Five Places you have lived:
1. Lewiston & Nampa, Idaho (birth to 3)
2. Ontario, Oregon (ages 3 to 16)
3. Portland, Oregon (ages 16 to 38)
4. Tomball, Texas (current)
Four TV shows you watch:
1. Local News (mostly KATU, sometimes at 5 or 6; always at 10)
2. Tonight Show w/Jay Leno
3. 24 (I just started watching this season)
4. This Old House
Places you have vacationed:
1. Disneyland
2. Missoula, Montana
3. Portland, Oregon
4. Victoria, British Columbia
Four websites you visit daily:
1. ABC News (my home homepage)
2. WorshipForum.com
3. My blog
4. All the blogs linked on my site
Four Favorite foods:
1. Pizza
2. Mexican Food, especially fajitas & enchiladas (Chevy's when out West)
3. Red Robin burgers (& they're coming soon to The Woodlands!)
4. Bananas (one-a-day, every day!)
Four Places you would rather be:
1. Portland
2. Missoula
3. Playing cards with friends
4. In my new job (where ever that is!)
Monday, February 06, 2006
Super Day!
They announced that Rod Brady would be their full-time worship leader, but then they also honored me in a special way and everyone applauded. They've certainly done a nice job of encouraging me and being sensitive to what I might be going through even as they chose another guy. I had more people giving me positive comments about the worship time than on any other week.
Then there was the SuperBowl. Seemed like Seattle had the better team and outplayed the Steelers for most of the game, but Pittsburgh had three big plays that made the difference (and Seattle couldn't get any help from the officials). My favorite commercial was the one where the two guys are comparing the features of their cell phones and one says his has theft deterence; then he throws his phone at the other guy when he attempts to take his wallet. The Bud Light commercials were all pretty funny too (why do beer commercials have to always be so good?). Best part of all was being with friends though -- the Smiths, Woods, Alexanders, Lonards, and Phil Stambaugh.
Friday, February 03, 2006
What's next?
I'm confident that God is taking care of me. I've been blessed where I am right now in lots of ways. But where I'm at is temporary. Sunday they will announce at SWCC that they have hired Rod Brady to be their full-time worship leader; he will begin on April 30. He's a gifted and nice man and I'm happy for him. He'll do a great job at Spring Woodlands. I'm still certain that God has been good in putting me there for this time, but now I'm wondering more and more about where I'll be headed next. I know I need to be patient and faithful ("one day at a time"), but I'd sure like to get things rolling toward the next part of my journey! So. . . I keep looking and searching and praying and waiting. . .
Scattered other thoughts:
Happy Birthday today to my wonderful Mother-in-law, Gladys Maki!
Looking forward to going to the ACU Lectureships later this month. And yesterday I learned that my dad will get to fly down here and go with me! Also, friends Rex Hamilton and Ike Graul will be there.
I brought out a whole bunch of new music at the SWCC Praise Team rehearsal last night. I felt like I hadn't really been leading "my own" choices of songs the last two weeks, so we read a lot of new things. It was fun, but by the end of practice they convinced me to maybe cut back on a couple of the new ones for this week! We will introduce "How Great is Our God" this Sunday; that should be a good one.
Wednesday, February 01, 2006
Dad's Birthday
Thanks for doing lots of things well. For showing me a "you can do it" spirit about life. I guess I always thought you could do anything and that helped me to believe that I could try about anything too. I guess I never thought it unusual that you could be a choral conductor and a carpenter, or that you could serve as an Elder and also be the guy that wired in lights or put up sheetrock at church.
Along those line, thanks for lending expertise and hands-on help in so many "projects". I still vividly recall when we built our own house back in Ontario and lots of other remodeling and fixing of things over the years. I have a love of doing my own projects because of those experiences with you.
Thanks for surrounding me with music. Music was always a part of the environment around our home when growing up. I appreciate you for doing vocal music well. When I finally got down to choosing a college major, I decided I'd had so much music around me and that I just couldn't let that go to waste.
Thanks for being a man of faith and prayer and grace. I appreciate the exposure to a bigger world of Christian faith than just our own church. I know I've been shaped by your attitudes and acceptance of change in forms and styles while never abandoning any foundations of our faith. I'm thankful for your example in leading worship. And I'm thankful that you're a man teaching and living by God's grace.
Often now as a father myself, I recall times when you took time out to shoot baskets, times when you insisted I do chores, times you included me in discussions or experiences in worship and music, and on and on. And I'm reminded to do similar things with my own children.
Happy Birthday, Dad!
Sunday, January 29, 2006
"Immeasurably More"
We closed with the Acappella song, "Now to Him" (how fitting, huh?). I'm enjoying the experience with SWCC and especially their Praise Team and staff.
Friday, January 27, 2006
Jury Duty
Today, I drove downtown and reported to the Jury Room at about 7:40 a.m. (which means I got up at about 5:30 this morning -- too early for me!). After listening to all the instructions umpteen times -- and not only in English, but also in Spanish and some other languages that I couldn't recognize -- we finally got to the part where we took our oath and then had our numbers called in large groups to report to certain court rooms. My number came up in a group of 65 and we were briefed that we would be heading to the 19th floor of the Criminal Justice Center. Oh joy! So, after our group made the three block walk with our police escort, then we had go through security screening (pretty much just like at the airport -- lots of things to unload or take off) and that meant about a 20-30 minute line. Eventually we all got into the building and up to the 19th floor. Here, our escort got us all lined up in order (I was actually prospective juror #2) and struggled with finding all the stragglers.
As all this was going on, I was amused to see various people walk by. Some well-dressed men in suits; "lawyer" I'm thinking as each of them goes by (actually, sometimes I'm thinking "good lawyer" and sometimes "cheap counsel"). Then there are the more interesting folks. I hate being at all racist, but several people of African-American descent strolled past (with unique walks and clothes) both into our court room and into the one across the hall and each time I'd catch myself thinking "defendent" or "friend/family of defendent". I suppose if we'd been lined up to judge the Enron/Ken Lay trial, then it might not have been the same and I might not have passed judgement on folks walking by so quickly. And a couple of people that passed me just looked so beaten down by life (and I caught myself thinking, "Is that what someone who's suffered abuse or abused drugs looks like?"). And then looking out the window at the end of the hallway, from atop our 19th floor perch, I wondered to myself, "who cares about all the people out there who are abused and despondent and at the end of their rope?" I'm not proud that my mind and heart classified people so quickly. I guess being at that particular location makes it easy to distinguish between the haves and have-nots. And my heart was touched as I realized that there are a whole lot more needy folks going unseen all around, every day. I need to be more like Jesus and less like me, to start actively caring and not so much passively ignoring.
Back to our group getting ready in the hallway. Finally we were all present and accounted for, we'd been allowed one last restroom break, and we'd all turned our cell phones off. It was a quiet moment in that "hall of justice". Then a deputy came out of the courtroom and passed out a paper to each of us: our work excuse. He explained, "I don't know who you all are, but I guess all today's defendents didn't like what they saw as they passed you because all today's cases decided to 'plea' " (meaning none of them would go to trial). "You are all free to go home now, or you can go back and sit in the jury room until 11:45 (it was about 10:30 then)."
A guy by me was really bummed to not get a chance at serving on a jury. Me, I was feeling quite blessed and thankful to get to go. I guess I won't get to find out if my hunches about the people were right. I hope I can have my eyes open more to the people right around me all the time and respond to their needs.
Wednesday, January 25, 2006
No big news
Last Thursday I went to the Tomball ISD Sub Orientation and then yesterday went to the Cy-Fair ISD Sub Training. Whew! That's a lot of hours of seat time just trying to get on the sub lists. I also had to submit transcripts, references, get a TB test, fill out a pile of forms, etc. And then they pay subs something like $8 to $9 an hour. Seems odd that in Texas they pay a person to be working with a room full of children less than they pay a bus driver (and less than the person might make just doing general labor jobs in the area). But, I'm getting ready to Sub anyway and actually kind of look forward to being in a classroom again. BTW, at this point it still takes about three weeks or so to get into the system while they run background checks, hook you up with payroll, get you your security badge, etc.
My brother-in-law, Troy Wagner, let us know yesterday that he will get to visit us in Feb. He's going to Florida (from Portland, OR) to visit "Helping Hands" (or something like that) and Continental will let him do a stopover in Houston for about a day-and-a-half. Cool!
Sunday, January 22, 2006
Today's thoughts. . .
Go Seahawks! SuperBowl bound!!!
I'm so thankful for good friends today. One called early this morning before church to let us know she was praying. Some who came to Spring Woodlands were there just to support me (thanks!). Several went to lunch with us. And a few came over to watch the Seahawks game. It's just nice to have friends!
Friday, January 20, 2006
SWCC Blessings
Other thoughts today:
I'm wondering what happened to WorshipForum.com??? I've tried to call Ike Graul three times, but no news yet. Others are asking me, but I don't have any info.
Tonight we're going to see "Hoodwinked". I hear it's very good family fun.
Wednesday, January 18, 2006
Cooking Lessons
Well, when we got home it was in the oven and looking fine. In fact, when the timer went off and we took it out of the oven, Lani said it was the best-looking meatloaf she'd ever seen in this house (not that we eat meatloaf very often, but it did look good and she was doing her best positive-parenting).
So we got the rest of the dinner done and on the table and everyone settled in, prayed, and then said some nice things to Lani (since it was her birthday) and then served up the best-looking meatloaf ever. . . and then we started taking our first bites. Hannah said "Ooo, what's wrong with this" and others faces puckered & grimaced as they took their first taste. Then Lani said to Micah and Hannah, "Did you put the right seasonings in, or did you BOTH put the seasoning in?"
And Micah said, "Well, it called for 1/2 cup of chopped onion, but we didn't have any fresh onion so I put in 1/2 cup onion salt instead" (Actually, he first said it called for 2 cups of chopped onion and said he'd put in 2 cups of onion salt, which was even funnier at the moment; he later changed his story after retrieving the recipe and remembering what he'd done.). We all laughed pretty hard about his mistake and explained to him that a 1/2 cup of fresh, chopped onion would reduce to a tablespoon or probably less of onion salt.
In the end, we all ate it anyway, but found it was tolerable when you took a bit of meatloaf along with some mashed potatoes and either gravy or ketchup. And we all feared that we'd have strong onion-breath all day the next day (today). Ah, the joys of learning to cook!
Tuesday, January 17, 2006
Thoughts & hopes. . .
I got wrapped up in the new season of "24" and watched both of the last two night's 2-hour season premieres. I've never been a fan before and I have a usual Monday-night commitment, but I may have to start taping it. I like the intensity (the clock probably adds to that). I didn't like Jack carrying out his own justice by executing a guy, and the violence is sometimes a little intense (especially if any younger eyes are in the room).
Go Seahawks! One more win to be in the SuperBowl! (If you're from the NW, Seattle is the only "local" team to cheer for).
The Hollywood liberals had their way yesterday. I hated seeing homosexual and transexual movies getting big coverage and awards at the Golden Globes. On the other hand, I really liked the Johnny Cash movie, "Walk the Line", and was glad it was a winner.
Finally, today is Lani's Birthday! The whole family went out to dinner last night (on a gift card) to celebrate. She's double digits today (33, 44, 55. . . your guess).
Sunday, January 15, 2006
Endings & Beginnings
It was a strange final Sunday. I thought our worship time went quite well (although I'm probably not the most unbiased to judge it), but the unusual thing today was when the Elders presented the results of a survey done back in November and then told some new directions the church would be heading. I was personally quite surprised for how little support there really was for the three major changes; I expected a fair number of people to object to some of the changes, but I thought there'd be at least 2/3 or 3/4 clearly in favor of the change. My own opinion is that maybe the survey showed a need to wait a bit longer or do some study/teaching before moving ahead. However, what was announced was that the Tomball Church would be changing their name (dropping "Church of Christ"), adding instrumental music (perhaps as soon as next Sunday!), and expanding women's role as ministry leaders and in public assemblies. Though I'm praying for God's blessing on the Tomball Church and it's leaders, I'm left wondering a little about where they're headed. I think it will be a tough road, at least in the near future.
Then, later in the afternoon I attended a "Congregational Meeting" over at the Spring Woodlands Church of Christ (where I'll begin leading worship next week). Five of their Elders spoke and it was all really positive and well-received. They encouraged the church with a number of Scriptures, they recognized and honored each staff member, and then they presented some upcoming changes. At the end they even introduced me. They announced that they are going from three services to two, changing their Sunday night format to a prayer time, holding firm on a closing date for the sale of their property to Walmart, presented a budget summary, and then handed out some "feedback" or "response" cards. All in all a very positive experience. And the people that visited with me before and after the meeting were all so kind!
Friday, January 13, 2006
How many disks does it take?
Though this was a difficult week emotionally with the final moving out at my old office, it was a very positive week in talking to other churches. I had e-mail correspondence with two churches and a nice phone call with someone from another church. I'm confident something will work out, I just don't know where and when. And that makes it kind of exciting!
Thursday, January 12, 2006
Cleaning "House"
Today I plan to go in and clean up lots of computer files, either burn them to disks or delete them. Wonder how long this will take?
Last night was my final "Praise Team Rehearsal" at Tomball. We had a nice circle of people singing together and afterward I was reflecting that that was a nice way to finish with them (besides this Sunday, of course).
Tuesday, January 10, 2006
Somebody loves me. . .
Monday, January 09, 2006
Sudoku
Sunday, January 08, 2006
Blessed. . .
God (through others) is so good!
Saturday, January 07, 2006
Tribute to Irby Jackson
We sang "When the Night is Falling" and "There's a Stirring" with our Praise Team to begin the service. I've always wanted to use these great songs in a time like this and they were especially meaningful yesterday (a few of our team couldn't quite get through them as we sang). Later we sang "Amazing Grace" and "It Is Well With My Soul" congregationally (songs requested by the family). Toward the end of the service we did "Days of Elijah" (another request by Irby's wife, Shirley). It was done in a more subdued way than we normally would, but finally toward the end we started clapping and a few people even shouted out; it was pretty moving.
The most important thing about the time, however, was remembering what an incredible person Irby was. I remember being inspired by my Grandfather's life and thinking at his funeral about how I really want to emulate some things about him in my life. Yesterday was like that too. Irby was a very warm, caring person. Careful about speaking out, but generous in giving his time and effort to help others. He mentored scores and scores of young men (and some gals too) by taking them water skiiing, having them over to work on cars, or just hanging out. I've heard several guys say that when they got into trouble they'd call Irby instead of their own parents. Lots of people who've joined the Tomball Church of Christ over the years will say that Irby & Shirley were primary reasons that they came back after their initial visit; they were always warm and welcoming. Irby loved to have fun and always seemed to have a glint or twinkle in his eye (which often meant he was "up to something"). When I look around our church building, I see things everywhere that Irby did or maintained. How do you replace a guy like that?
The last few times I saw Irby, he wasn't doing too well physically. He'd been battling cancer for the last couple years and then had some heart trouble and other things start to pile up on him. It was hard to see a guy that had always been so strong and active be in such a weakened state. This wasn't the real Irby and I believe it was a blessing that he was released from this frail human flesh into his heavenly body.
I do want to share my last two times with him. On Dec. 11, a group of children and parents had gone caroling to two nursing homes in Tomball and then met for a little Christmas party. Someone (Bonnie Abel) suggested that we go over and sing to Irby. So seven carloads of us drove over to Irby & Shirley's. We weren't sure how we'd find Irby and were ready to sing from outside the door or maybe just step in and do a carol or two. Instead, we were all welcomed inside and gathered around the hospital-style bed that Irby was on in his living room. I don't know how Irby's body felt, but he smiled alot and sure seemed to enjoy it all; I even saw him wink at one or two of the little girls. He had that glimmer in his eye that night! The last time I saw him was on Christmas Eve. We'd made some holiday goodies for friends and neighbors and had a special tray for Irby & Shirley. Christmas had almost come and we hadn't delivered it yet. So, at about 5:00 p.m. on Christmas Eve, Micah (my son) and I drove over to deliver the tray. Again we were warmly welcomed in and sat down to visit awhile (while there, my friend Phil Stambaugh and his parents dropped by too). It was a special little visit and Irby seemed pretty strong and was able to talk pretty well. He had that smile on his face again that night. I treasure these last two visits. I don't want to remember his weakened body, but I will remember getting to see his smile and joyful spirit.
Our lives go on. I'm praying for Shirley and other family members as they live on with a big hole in their lives. But I'm grateful for the inspiration and positive effect Irby had on me and so many others.
Thursday, January 05, 2006
Interim Worship Leader
So, here's what was offered -- and which I accepted today:
I'll receive a part-time cash salary to be the worship leader at SWCC starting Jan. 22, with a commitment through May 1st (but possibly longer). The salary is about what I could make at Tomball as part-time worship leader plus what I'd make subbing 15 days a month. My work days will be Tuesday, Thursday, and Sunday morning at SWCC (so I could do some subbing or other work on MWF). They'll pay me the agreed amount even if I need to go do interviews at other places. They say I'm also still being considered for the long-term position too and that this will allow them to get to know me fully. This offer allows me to have some guaranteed income through most of the rest of this school year, which is what I was seeking as I continue looking for a full-time position.
Thanks for your prayers, my friends.
Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Changes
Today Lani's back at work. I know it was hard for her to get going. She's been drinking decaf coffee, but this morning when I made hers I mixed half and half decaf & regular (without her knowing -- just seemed like she needed a little boost!). Ha!
Due to my "unemployment" and need to be free for other work, we're switching Caleb and Levi to Lani's school. They don't want to go and we've been really happy with their teachers and opportunities in Tomball, but it's the only thing that makes sense for us right now. Just another one of those difficult decisions we're making.
Sunday, January 01, 2006
New Year -- 2006
Looking back:
I've enjoyed so many good things this year -- good health, a blessed family, fun travel times, chances to sing, great kids, and a wonderful wife. I especially enjoyed singing with Hallel at Pepperdine and going to the Zoe conference in Nashville. Although I haven't landed a new job, I've enjoyed the experiences and relationships built with people in Michigan, Tennessee, Texas, and more. I've enjoyed having my daughter sing regularly on our praise team (and she gets compliments all the time!). I've (mostly) enjoyed having a new dog this last year, our "labradoodle", Molly.
Looking ahead:
Who knows what adventure, opportunities, and challenges lie ahead? I'm excited to be talking to churches in Oregon and Colorado about possible jobs (and some other places too). I'm concerned about our finances and how to keep things afloat, but still believe that God will take care of us. It's exciting to know that we will be moving somewhere new sometime this year; yet, it's difficult not knowing where and when and how it will all come together.
This new year should be one of the most interesting years of my life. Ready or not, here it is!
Friday, December 30, 2005
Date night!

The first few years that Lani and I were married, we had "date night" once a week (or more!). Usually Friday night, but sometimes on Saturday. Somewhere in all the hustle and bustle and four kids, we lost the habit. But, tonight we had a nice dinner out with no kids! We both had wonderful steak dinners at the Pecos Mesquite Grill (thanks to Willie for a gift certificate that helped out). It made for a relaxing time to enjoy dinner and just talk.
Thursday, December 29, 2005
Best & Worst of today
Got to sleep in (again); no alarm set, got up at about 8:00.
Had a nice phone call from a preacher who's church is looking for a worship minister (in Colorado!).
Found out I may have a little extra money owed me at work!
Heard after dinner that Harold Hillegeist's brain surgery went well. PTL!
Had fun playing "Hate Your Neighbor" card game with my kids tonight.
Worst things today:
Struggled with kids this morning -- whining, fussing, bullying. When do they go back to school???
Heard mid-day that Harold Hillegeist was going in for brain surgery this afternoon.
Cleaned out my office files and desk piles today. (I was surprised that my stomach actually felt a little upset as I cleaned things out; this must be bothering me more than I consciously realize.)
"Don't worry about tomorrow, today has enough trouble of it's own" -- Jesus
Wednesday, December 28, 2005
King Kong!
The last two nights (and we're about to make it 3-in-a-row), Lani and I have put on a movie and then "processed" my CD collection. We're taking all the CDs and putting them into little slip cover jackets (so we have to take the CD booklet out and then sometimes take out the back liner and trim it down to match the booklet size; also we take the two little end tabs and pull them off at their perforation and then slide them into each side of the new slip case). In the end, we get rid of all those bulky (and often cracked or broken) "jewel" cases. We got these cool boxes from Target that will hold about 90 CDs each in their slip cases. Hopefully, when all is done, my CDs will take up a lot less room. I've done all my Christmas ones (about 90, a full box), and most of my Praise & Worship and Kids music. Along the way, I'm trying to decide which ones to just totally get rid of too; at some point, I've really got to thin out a bunch of these! Lani thinks I should adopt my friend Ike's idea of "for every new one you get, you get rid of two old ones".
Tuesday, December 27, 2005
Reality check
I hadn't thought about it much, but as I started sorting and packing some things, it really hit me in the gut that I'm done here. I've moved out of offices twice before in my working years, but each time before I was excited to be headed somewhere else; this is a little different because I'm not sure what I'm doing or where I'm going next.
Lani noticed today that there are a couple of music teaching jobs in a local district posted in mid December. I'll see what I need to do to get ready to sub or be able to apply for any mid-year openings.
Sunday, December 25, 2005
Saturday, December 24, 2005
Christmas Eve
As I think about past Christmas Eve's I'm overwhelmed with a flood of memories of joyful childhood anticipation, of my grandpa (and dad) seeing who could stay up the latest to do their "Santa" things after everyone else was in bed, of my first Christmas Eve service I ever attended (went with my Uncle Doug to a mostly hispanic Catholic church in Abilene that was packed to the walls), of my pre-teen years when I'd try to stay up past when my parents both were asleep so that I could then get up, and on and on and on. . . Christmas time is special like that, isn't it? Of course, some may have difficult memories tied to the holidays, but for me it's a time of treasured memories.
So, what am I doing now? Waiting for everyone else to be asleep in bed so that I can sneak in and do all my "Santa" things!
Friday, December 23, 2005
A "Griswald" House?!?!?
My first missed day
Last night we went up to College Station with some friends (Linda, Hayden, and Elizabeth Woods) to see "Santa's Wonderland", a huge, drive-through lights display. It was really fun, the displays were great (I think I got some ideas for my house!), and our timing was perfect. We got there just as it really got dark and hardly had any wait (whereas, as we were leaving, there was a long line backed up onto the feeder road). After the lights, we went to eat at Freebirds (one of those places where you pick your tortilla and what goes in it -- yum!).
Today there's a little more shopping and wrapping to do, laundry and house-cleaning (isn't that just "daily"?), and I'm still trying to finish a Christmas letter. Some of you may get my letter for New Years!
Wednesday, December 21, 2005
First day of Winter?
We had a lovely day today. First, no one got up early (and I actually got a nice 8-hour rest). Then we had breakfast all together as a family -- a very rare occurance. Lani read aloud a Christmas story from one of her Mary Engelbreit Christmas books (Believe, I think); the story was called "The Three Skaters". Later, Lani and I went Christmas shopping without any kids. Hannah made glass candy while we were gone and apparently the boys all played together peacefully. When we got home in the late afternoon I made one final batch of Christmas goodies and then we all had dinner together. After dinner, Lani and I filled 13 plates & tins with holiday goodies to give away tomorrow (I'll mention below what all I made). At 8:00, I was checking to see if any decent Christmas special was on and I came across "Christmas with the Mormon Tabernacle Choir" on PBS; I knew I'd enjoy it, but had no idea that the entire family would gather and peacefully watch the whole thing. Now, while I'm writing this, "Christmas with the St. Olaf Choir in Norway" is on. Such lovely music for two straight hours!
Here's the Christmas goodies I made over the last few days:
Peanut Brittle (I made two double batches!)
Chrenlich's Christmas Candy (easiest to make and my favorite!)
No Oven Peanut Butter Squares (a new one for me this year; Hannah made a batch and I made one too)
Salted Nut Roll Bars
Glass Candy (Hannah made a green, mint batch and a blue, vanilla batch)
Peanut Butter Fudge
Fantasy Fudge (the one made with marshmallow creme)
When we were filling the plates, Lani said "everything's brown, either peanut or chocolate or both" (then we added the glass candy to the plates last).
It's been a nice day! Now, maybe to start writing that Christmas letter. . .
Tuesday, December 20, 2005
Can't sleep. . .
Funny how I'm sick and I know my body really needs to rest to get well, but it's the last thing that I seem to be able to do right now.
Looked out my front window and noticed that three houses in my cul-de-sac have their Christmas lights on -- at 5:00 a.m. (mine come on at 6:00 -- maybe I should change that). Saw my next door neighbor leave for work. Didn't realize that so many people were up this early. I'd like to be back in bed sleeping!
The last two hours have provided lots of time to pray for people that come to mind (Mark Moran, Jennifer Hamilton and fam, my wife and kids) and for things that I'm anxious about (like not having a full-time job soon, seeing how we can reduce our living costs, current job applications). There's always blessings amid our adversity.
Monday, December 19, 2005
Divide and conquer!
I've got a nasty cold today -- congested, runny nose, body aches, the works. What a way to "enjoy" a day of vacation!
Sunday, December 18, 2005
Special Christmas Worship today!
The first picture here shows the whole Praise Team singing. We had ten singers today. Lights were dim to accomodate the video.
Here are Claire & Emma Gist, who opened the medley with "Tell Me the Story of Jesus" and then also did part of "Silent Night" as a duet.
And here's a picture of my family taken right after the
service was over.
Saturday, December 17, 2005
A FREE day!
Lani and I are going to her teaching team's Christmas party tonight. Besides an hors d'oeuvre, we're supposed to bring a bottle of some type of spirits. So, earlier today I went to the store and walked through the wine section, all the while thinking. . . "I have no idea what kind of wine to bring to a party." I don't mind an occasional glass of wine, but know so little about wine that I never know what to order at a restaurant, or in this case what to bring to a party. I picked up a bottle of "spumante" and thought maybe that sounded good. Then I saw a "sparkling white zinfandel" and decided that fit the bill (since white zinfandel is one of the few wines that I know Lani and I both like and a sparkling version of it sounds like it's more fit for a party). I guess I'll see tonight what regular drinkers and party-goers bring to this type of occasion! Cheers!
Friday, December 16, 2005
Remember the excitement?!?
Family notes:
Lani came home sick from work yesterday, but felt like she could make it through today and went to work (plus, they'll be having parties, getting teacher gifts, etc.!).
Micah called me after school yesterday and was excited to tell me that there is a sign in our yard proclaiming us the best decorated house in our neighborhood! Fun! Lani already asked, even in her ill fog, if I was going to take a picture of it and send it out and post it here. Ha!
We rehearsed last night for this Sunday's special music at church. Hannah will do a little solo on one song. Things went pretty well with the team and I look forward to Sunday.

Just thought I'd share a favorite Dickens quote before going.
Thursday, December 15, 2005
Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Hidden dirt!
Is life like that sometimes, too? Does it take some calamity to make us examine and perhaps clean out an area of our life that we might normally just ignore? For me, I'm thinking that maybe my loss of my current job is doing that. It definitely has caused me to examine some deep recesses of my heart, of my giftedness, of my career path(s), and perhaps even of my faith walk with God. I don't like it much, of course. I'd rather not have ever had to get into this mess. And just like I struggled and grimaced as I worked through my plugged sink ordeal, it's tough going to face some of my buried personal problems. But. . . when it's all said and done, things are better off. At home, I've got a cleaned out drain line along with a clean under-sink cabinet, and even clean laundry room floor under my washer and dryer; in my own life, I don't know the final outcome, but I know that my character & my faith are getting cleaned up and strengthened through my struggles.
Tuesday, December 13, 2005
Still have a plugged up sink and now I know that the plug is far enough down the drain system that we can't run our washer either (I found this out this morning when I tried to put in a load of clothes and later heard the sound of water gushing out on the floor of the laundry room. . . ugh!). I ran about 17 or so of my new 20-foot snake into the drain line, but didn't reach the plug (or perhaps moved it down further???). Someone at the concert last night suggested I try putting in a big bottle of drain opener and then filling the sinks up really full so that the weight of the water would help push. Hmm. . . I got more drain cleaner last night (after the concert) and put it all in, then filled both kitchen sinks up to the rim. . . awoke this morning to still find two sinks full of water. Today when I go home, I guess I'll stop and rent a big, long, heavy-duty auger, bail out all the standing water, and then see if I can open up the line. At what point do I give up and call in a professional???
I led some carol singing at the Tomball Christian Business Assoc. luncheon today. I played carols on my keyboard for awhile beforehand while everyone was just visiting. I heard some people saying, "HE's from the CHURCH OF CHRIST!" (with a tinge of surprise in their voices). One guy came up while I was playing beforehand and asked what keys my carols were in. I handed him a copy of the book and then he asked if he could bring in his harmonica and play along. I'm thinking. . . "this will be interesting. . ." Turns out, he was really good, and he had a case full of about 15 harmonicas (one in just about every key)! Jack Fry is his name. So, Jack and I played together the rest of the time and on 2-3 songs we let Jack do a solo verse while I played some accompanying chords. We did a bunch of requests later after the lunch with everyone singing along. It was a good experience.
Monday, December 12, 2005
Up and down times. . .
BTW, I didn't mention that all this while, my daughter Hannah woke up ill and has thrown up several times. While I was in our kitchen this morning working with yucky, stinky water, I could hear her in the kids' bathroom losing whatever was still in her stomach. And while wrestling with my plumbing, I'm thinking about how bad it will be for Hannah to miss school today before her finals begin tomorrow. . . Lani knew what I was contemplating and said, "they don't allow someone to come to school who's throwing up!"
Life is so up and down and unpredictable! And these things this morning are just very minor bumps along the road. We're going over some bigger hills right now with my job search and all that uncertainty (along with Holiday busyness and financial stress). Yet, a bigger hurt is in my heart today because last night we learned that our good friend, Jennifer Hamilton, had just lost her dad this weekend; he, Don House, was in a traffic accident Saturday night along with his wife, Molly. He had severe internal injuries and did not survive. She is in the Stanford Medical Center with a fractured vertebra and broken wrist, but is stable. I'm praying today for Molly, Jennifer and her family.
So, what do we do with these little and big life events? Well, for one thing, we will have some emotional responses. That's normal! So, I'm feeling some dread of my next step with my sink, some pressure on behalf of my daughter, some sympathy with her illness, some heaviness of heart for my friend, Jen, and her family. Yet, I'm at peace. . . I'm confident that God is in control. . . I'm not overwhelmed with life (just a little surprised with each event), but I just continue on, perhaps going down a little bit different path than I'd hoped for today. When I stop and check my soul's pulse at this mid-day point, I find that I'm not too stressed out. I guess I've learned that life just has these ups and downs and I know who carries me through it all.
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Tonight I'm singing with the Texas Master Chorale in our Christmas Concert (7:30 pm at Tomball United Methodist Church, if you're reading this and live nearby!). We'll sing Rutter's Magnificat -- a truly lovely work -- and a Christmas medley of familiar carols, all accompanied by a full orchestra. I look forward to singing!
Sunday, December 11, 2005
Meaningful Christmas Party with Kids
When we got back to our church building to do some crafts, eat, and do a book exchange, one of the moms suggested that maybe at the close of our party that we could go sing some carols at the home of one of our elders who's been very ill and just got to go home after being in the hospital over a month. So, after we'd had our fun time together (we actually had four very cute little crafts that they rotated around and did), I announced that -- after cleaning up -- anyone that would like to could go sing for Irby. While several had to get on home, we had a caravan of seven vehicles head over to Irby & Shirley's place. When we got there, Irby was sitting up in his hospital-style bed in their living room and had a few other visitors there. We sang for about 15-20 minutes and he sure seemed to enjoy it. I even saw him give a wink to one of the little girls! I hope these kind of experiences create some meaningful memories in our kids. I know all of us adults were touched today.
Saturday, December 10, 2005
Aslan!
I won't pretend to be a critic, but I think young and old alike will really like this movie. And if you're looking a little bit, you'll see some parallels between Aslan and Jesus (which Lewis intended, I'm sure). There are some little deviations from Lewis' book, so watch carefully.
I didn't quite catch all the credits, but I thought the White Witch sure looked alot like the main being in the center of the Borg (for you Star Trek fans); eerily similar, if you ask me.
Tomorrow we're doing a tie-in with the Narnia movie at church. The sermon and our service theme is "The Lion of the Tribe of Judah".
In other life news, I found out from the Glenwood Church in Tyler that I didn't get that job. I'm totally OK and at peace with that because I believe that God is directing things. I suppose I felt a twinge of "rejection", but I really was thinking that I probably wasn't a good fit there (since I'm probably a bit more "progressive" than they'd be comfortable with for awhile!). They did say that I caused quite a bit of "fervent discussion" when their committee tried to decide who to go with.
Friday, December 09, 2005
Kemper Crabb
Thursday, December 08, 2005
Christmas Lights!

Call this post "Christmas Lights" or "Why My December Power Bill is Always So High!"
I love to brighten our house with lots of cheery lights. Just thought I'd share how things are looking this year.
Before you think I'm going way crazy with this, you have to understand that our whole culdesac does it up pretty good. And my neighbor to my immediate right got a city "Best in the Neighborhood" award last year. I'd love to add a big star right up at the peak of our roof and also a sign that says "Peace on Earth! Good will to men!" I've been dreaming about how to make just such a sign, but I just don't have the time to do it. Ah. . . maybe next year.
Wednesday, December 07, 2005
Wintery Mix!
It was kind of fun to see on the weather in Tyler that they might be getting snow, sleet, or a "wintery mix" tonight! I'll have to check the weather tomorrow and see if it panned out there. Even here in Tomball tonight it's dipped into the 30's and there's a little bit of precip coming down. Tomorrow morning could be interesting. I love the cooler weather!!!
Tuesday, December 06, 2005
From Tyler, TX
Today I'm in Tyler, TX to interview with the Glenwood Church of Christ for a Worship Leader/Equipping Minister position. If you're reading this, I solicit your prayers for a good, honest time of communication during my interview tonight at 7:00.
The drive up from Tomball to Tyler was BEAUTIFUL! Lots of Fall colors and pretty scenery. Small towns and several lakes. I rolled along praying and listening to Christian radio (I could hear KSBJ over halfway here and then found KVNE up this way and really liked what they were playing).
That's all for now!
Monday, December 05, 2005
A Sunny, Cool Monday 12/5/2005
Tomorrow I drive up to Tyler, TX to do an interview with the Glenwood Church of Christ. I really don't know alot about things there, but look forward to visiting with the church staff and search committee.
Here's one of my favorite Christmas poems, called "A Christmas Carol". I always thought it was called "In the Bleak Midwinter" as it's first line begins (and indeed as a published song, it's usually titled this way). It's by Christina Rossetti and was written sometime before 1872.
A Christmas Carol
In the bleak mid-winter
Sunday, December 04, 2005
Sunday, Dec. 4
And I really love Advent & Christmas worship times. I love planning and leading these seasonal services. It's such a joy to celebrate the coming of Jesus.
Today I led worship at the Spring Woodlands Church of Christ and we celebrated Jesus! We sang several carols during worship, had two "presentational" songs, had live and video drama, and heard a great message about remembering what Christmas is all about (the "big picture" is about Jesus and about God's "presence" - Immanuel - with us). I sure enjoyed my time there and hope it was a blessing to the folks there too!
Tonight I'm worn out and drained from a busy week and full day, but I feel good because of what has been done. God is good!
Saturday, December 03, 2005
83 degrees on Dec. 3!!!
Today I have no scheduled commitments! It feels nice. Lani and I plan to get our Christmas lights and decorating done. Maybe that'll bring on a little more of a December feel!
Friday, December 02, 2005
TGIF!
Still listening to KSBJ's Christmas Open House. Great Christmas music!
So, my favorite Christmas recordings are:
Harry Conick: Harry for the Holidays
Amy Grant: All three of her Christmas albums (and I hear there's maybe something new out there).
Michael W. Smith: Both of his
GRP Christmas, Vol. 1 & Vol. 3
King's Singers: A Little Christmas Music
Acappella Christmas Party
Bing Crosby: White Christmas (I think that's the title)
Nat King Cole: (a collection that has "Chestnuts Roasting. . .")
Hmm. . . there's a lot more that I like, but that'll do for starters.
Now, to get some work done! Lani and I have both really wanted to finish Christmas decorating at home (her inside, me the lights), so I've got to finish all work projects today so that tonight and tomorrow are free.
Thursday, December 01, 2005
Dec. 1
I'd love to stop and share my favorite Christmas recordings, but I can't take the time. Maybe tomorrow. . .
Our cable modem crashed yesterday, so the arrangment that I'm madly trying to finish for a rehearsal tonight couldn't be retrieved at home to work on (hidden blessing: I slept a little more than I would have if I'd have stayed up working on it).
I love the angels' words when announcing Jesus' birth: "Peace on Earth, goodwill to men. . ."
(I'd sure love to have that displayed on my house along with all my Christmas lights.)





