House of Hope

Last Saturday night Lani & I attended a dinner for the Hope of Hope - Portland. I want to encourage you to learn about House of Hope (they may have one in your community too) and to consider supporting them. They offer support, counseling, intervention, and (eventually in Portland) residential treatment centers for troubled teens. My brother-in-law, Troy Wagner, is now serving as the Executive Director for House of Hope - Portland as they build a base of support and begin to offer services in the Portland area.

You can see their website at: http://www.houseofhope-portland.org/HofH/House_of_Hope_Portland.html

Of course, at the banquet they asked for everyone's support and took up a collection and pledge cards. I wasn't able to give a whole lot there, but started feeling convicted about how much stuff I have -- just plain EXTRA stuff that I can't even use -- and decided that all the things I'd decided to list on Craigslist could just go to benefit House of Hope. Now, I'm not telling you this to say how good I am or anything (I'd much rather not let my right hand know what my left hand is doing here!), but I want to encourage you too to see what resources or stuff you might be able to let go of which can then benefit a good cause like this. It's been pretty cool. We've sold about five things so far and collected more than $300 and still have more items to go. It's a win-win-win situation too because I'm getting rid of things I don't really need, House of Hope is going to benefit, and other people are also picking up stuff they can probably really use. It also makes you feel good to be a part of reallocating God's resources for use somewhere else (it's all HIS anway, right?)!

So, what could you let go of and bless others with?

They grow up so fast!

I'm not even talking about my own kids! Yesterday, our very good friend, Jennifer Hamilton and her daughter, Olivia, stopped by our house. They are on their way up to Seattle Pacific University where Olivia is about to begin her freshman year! It was great to visit with them for a little while -- along with Bruce & Shirley Hamilton and Molly House (Jen's mom) -- but what a reminder of how fast all our kids are growing up! They gave us a picture of their son Lukas in his football uniform and he was looking like one tough, grown-up dude. On the flip side, our guests all commented on how much bigger and older our kids looked too.

All of this is just reminding me that I really need to cherish and enjoy the time I have with my children now, because sooner than I think they'll be out the door and off to college or work or who knows what.

Love your kids today!

End of the week update

Well, the second week of school is complete and I'm starting to settle in a bit. I'm also exhausted after staying up too late this week working on the downstairs bathroom at night. Good news there is that it's mostly finished and looks pretty nice!

Hannah got a part in the Gresham H.S. musical!!! She figured yesterday that maybe she wasn't going to be cast, but found out today that she'll be Rapunzel in the show, "Into the Woods". It's really cool because this show has a very small cast and being new and up against alot of other kids, the odds seemed stacked against her landing a part. She'll be really busy for the next couple of months. Shows are the two weeks prior to Thanksgiving.

I'm attending the Portland Symphonic Choir retreat this weekend -- Friday night and daytime Saturday -- and then going to see the musical "Wicked" Saturday night. For a couple of days, no working on the house!

Trying to find time to blog!

Life has been busy!!! And to any friends or family watching here for updates on life here, I'm sorry that I haven't had time for posting much on my blog.

I'm now into my second week of teaching at Hollydale and starting to get a feel for my schedule and the people here. I probably know only 10 or 15 student's names at this point and am trying to figure out who everyone is and what I'm to teach them. There are 18 classes of students in our building and I see most of them twice a week.

At home, we're still trying to unpack the scores of boxes that are piled in the garage and in many corners of our house. We don't have room for quite a bit of the stuff we own and are really trying to let go of a lot of things. We've got a bunch of furniture that just won't fit in this house that I'll be craigslisting (when I have to time to photograph it and post some ads!). I'm also still finishing up many of the remodeling projects that we started. This week I should be able to put the downstairs bathroom back together now that I've finished grouting and sealing the slate floor (and painting the walls and wiring in new lights, etc.). We have painted every room in the house, put slate floors in the entry and three bathrooms, put new light fixtures in almost every room, and reworked the walls in the kitchen/dining/living room area. We'll replace the main electrical panel in the next couple of weeks and then totally gut and redo the kitchen sometime around Thanksgiving or Christmas. Ah, the joys of home-ownership!

Hannah and Micah seem to be adjusting to Gresham H.S. pretty well. Hannah has been driving them to school each day (at least for now). Hannah is trying out for their musical today. They're doing "Into the Woods". Micah is in band again and also got into a men's choir. Caleb & Levi go with me to Hollydale and we've been walking together since it's only about a block and a half. They seem to like their teachers and are starting to make new friends here. Lani is busy doing two jobs in the David Douglas School District: 2 days a week on a long-term sub/job share, and two and a half days a week teaching TAG. She's been very busy!

Well, I'd better go and get my plans ready for today's classes!

Summer is over!

Today was my first official day at work (actually it was "New Teacher Inservice Day" for both Lani and me in both our districts). So, Summer is now over! The kids start school next week after Labor Day weekend. The way it should be everywhere, you Texas friends!!!

We're still living amid lots of still-unpacked boxes and there are still lots of house projects not fully completed, but it's nice to be in our own home.

I found out tonight at Portland Symphonic Choir rehearsal that I will be a paid "Staff Singer", so that was cool news! Also, Hannah auditioned for choir at Gresham H.S. earlier in the evening and the teacher agreed to put her in their top big choir (she is the 97th person in the group and the principal had told the teacher to cap it at 90).

We have a working home phone now, but still no internet service. I'm back over at Troy & Shauna's tonight typing this. I can check my personal e-mail and my blog at work, if needed. If you'd like our phone number, e-mail me at DanDalzell@aol.com and I'll send it to you (along with our new address too). Lani says I shouldn't just post it all here publicly.

We look forward to having guests in our home soon, but if you come right away we may put you to work helping put things away and finishing something. We have realized -- far too late -- that we just have too much stuff! So now one of our goals is to get rid of furniture, clothes, toys and such that we don't need &/or won't fit in our new house. Pare down and simplify!

In Our New Home

Sorry for not posting lately! Life has been a busy blur as we've been working every day on the house and then finally moving in yesterday. We got all our stuff out of storage and piled into the garage, family room, back yard, etc. Thanks to many good friends here, the move-in was done in one day!

Later in the day I cleaned up and auditioned for the Portland Symphonic Choir. I think I did OK, but I certainly hadn't had the time or sleep to prepare to sing at my best. I find out sometime today if I made it.

Well, this was just a quick update. I'm off to sort boxes, unload things, put together some stuff, and continue the fixing of the house. Tomorrow Lani and I both have our first meetings at our respective schools. Busy, busy, busy. . .

Closing on house tomorrow!

Just heard that we should close on our house tomorrow! Woohoo! The last 24 hours we've been thinking that maybe it would be delayed a week, then that it might not even happen because of some hold-ups in paperwork, and then suddenly a call saying that it should close tomorrow (Friday, Aug. 4).

I've got so much nervous energy! I can hardly wait to dig in and start working on things!!!

It's August and what are we doing?

So, today it's August. Can you believe it? We were hoping by about now to be getting into a house. Or be close to closing so that we could start working on the house. But we're waiting. Our mortgage company is waiting on Lani's school district who is waiting on the Oregon TSPC and so on. Meanwhile, Lani & I are a bit fidgety as each day slips by bringing us closer to the end of our free summer days. I wake up each morning thinking through the projects I need to do once we get possession of the house. Hopefully all this mental energy will be helpful as I rehearse my strategies for each project over and over!

I had hoped to totally gut the kitchen and put in new cabinets, countertops, lights, etc. but after visiting Home Depot, Lowe's, and a cabinet shop, I've had to face the reality that you don't just order cabinets and get them overnight, or next week, or even two weeks from now. We're looking at 4 to 6 weeks to get cabinets -- if I order them today. So, now my project list is being reshuffled as we decide which things we want to do before moving in and which to put off due to cost, lower priority, or lack of available materials. There will be plenty to do any way you look at it!

Maybe next time we're in the house I can take some digital pics so that we can share a "before and after" look at things.

We did a second visit to the East County Church of Christ this last Sunday. I think we all enjoyed it a little better the second time around. There are a couple of other places we'll make return visits to. Of course, with people's summer schedules and all, it may be hard to get a complete picture of a church until after school starts back up in September.

Heat over, Troy & Shauna back.

Oh, it is so nice today! Highs in the upper 80's, sunny, and breezy! It's especially nice after those triple-digit days recently. I baked a fresh apricot cobler and also cooked chicken nuggets in the oven tonight; we wouldn't have dreamed of turning on the oven the last few days!

Troy & Shauna, along with our friends Paul & Linda McDonald, are flying back right now from Hawaii. Sounds like they've had a wonderful time. Watching all the kids here hasn't been too bad, but it'll be nice to have all the parents back here. Lani says they owe us a night or two out!

We're still waiting for some things to move ahead toward a house closing. Mostly the mortgage company has been waiting for Lani's district to confirm her employment, but they won't issue a contract til they have forms back from her Texas school district and from the Oregon licensing folks (TSPC). Lani turned in everything well over a week ago, but it just takes time for all those things to get processed. In the meantime, we're both a little restless while waiting for things to happen. I've been pricing kitchen cabinets, sinks, bath fixtures, flooring, and such. My recent shock was how long it takes to get cabinets if you have to order them (4-6 weeks!). I think tomorrow I'm going to check out a couple of local cabinet outlets.

Lani's final paycheck from her Cy-Fair teaching comes this Friday and then we will have a loooonnnnng stretch until our new jobs start paying (both will get our first paychecks on the last Friday of September). This will be a test! Still, when I was praying today, I was thankful as I realized that God has ably taken care of all our needs so far through some difficult months and in making a move. I have no reason to doubt that He will take care of us over these next two months too!

Heat wave!

It's hot!!!! Current temp is about 103 or so (which I think is a new record high). Good thing is that it's only 22% humidity and there is a l2 mph breeze. I've mostly stayed down in the basement doing stuff today (I built a "Monkey Bar Golf" set -- you can find plans on the internet). Tomorrow is supposed to be about the same high temp again. Whew!

We just decided to load up the troops (all ten of us here -- Troy & Shauna are off on vacation to Hawaii) and go to a double-feature movie: "Over the Hedge" & "Nacho Libre" (playing at a cheap, air-conditioned theatre!). I'm off of here!

Feeling better

I've had a cold the last few days (came on Sunday), but today am starting to feel better. Thank God for healing! Yesterday I felt really achey and stuffed up, then sometime in the night it seemed like my fever broke and the tide turned. It's always so nice to start feeling well after one of these bouts.

I've been reading "Blue Like Jazz" by Donald Miller. It's one of those books that lots of people were recommending for the last year or two. I started it just before moving from Tomball, but then it got buried in the shuffle. Last week I picked it up again and have nearly finished it (three short chapters to go). Miller is not like me at all! The first few chapters I was just not connecting with him, probably more on a personal level because he lives in such a different way than I've chosen to live. But I was intrigued at the same time because he lives in Portland and makes numerous mention of places he goes (parks, coffee shops, pubs, Reed College, downtown, etc.) and they're all places that I am quite familiar with! This far into the book, he has grown on me. Not that I will change my personal habits to be like him (he smokes, drinks, etc.), but I appreciate his thoughts and real-life attempts to make his Christian faith real, true, relevant, down-to-earth, and sincere. I think I see how his faith-walk can certainly better reach many unchurched, faithless people than mine does.

Last weekend I took Caleb & Levi to the Father-Child Retreat at Camp Yamhill. It was beautiful, of course, and we had lots of fun doing things together, but it was also (I hope and pray) a good time for relationship-building and meaningful talk with my two youngest kids. Some things we did: built a sailing boat from foam blocks, sticks, & plastic (we got 2nd place at the "Regatta"!), built a kite, built two wind chimes, went out in a canoe on Sat. & Sun., did a river walk & swam in the creek (where Levi gashed his chin on a rock), went on a hike, did an obstacle course, had fun at "campfire" both nights (Levi got up and told a joke), had some scheduled times for father-child devotionals & discussions, and also had group times of teaching, singing, and such. It was a great experience, even if I did come home sick!

One more note: have any of you discovered "Craigslist"? Lani & I started looking for things that we'd like for our house and have gotten hooked with watching for cool stuff. Check it out! Here's the URL I use, but you can see that it's world-wide, so you can navigate to your own city or area.
http://portland.craigslist.org/

Choosing a new church

We've been visiting different churches each week since arriving back in Portland (5 so far) and have been thinking and praying about where we should be.

Here are some things that we're weighing:
1) Will we stay in a Church of Christ, or go to a different church?
2) How good of a church will this be for our kids? (Do they have a quality children's & teen program/ministry?)
3) Is this church close to our community? How close does it need to be?
4) Do they have God-centered, celebrative worship times?
5) Do we like the worship style? (a more honest question!)
6) How do Lani and I see ourselves involved here as volunteers in ministry?
7) Could I be useful and fit here as a part of their worship ministry?
8) Does this church have a mission and ministry focus that is evident (and that we're in agreement with)?
9) Do we like the ministry staff, and in particular, the lead minister (and his preaching)?
10) Where does it seem that God might be leading us to be?

We've obviously been swayed by many friends and relatives to check out the churches they are a part of (and that's been nice to do), but at some point we need to focus in on the places that seem the best fit. Mostly, we've just dropped in for worship assembly times so far, but plan to do repeat visits to our top choices in which we all go to classes and worship to get a better feel for everything.

So, any input from others out there who have gone through the process of finding a new church family/home would be most welcome!

Peaceful Sunday afternoon

Just thought I'd add a post about life today as I'm enjoying a quiet, Sunday afternoon.

We visited the Metro Church of Christ in Gresham today and like some other places we've checked out, we knew a lot of people. Greg Woods preached today and James Stanley (their youth minister) led singing -- both guys we've known for quite awhile. We sat by and went to lunch with Mike & Joni Tolon. Mike was (and still is) the band director at Parkrose H.S. the last three years that I taught there.

Brian & Eryann Maki and their sons, Orion & Jaden, headed back to Missoula today, so it's a little more quiet around here now that we're back down to just 12 people and 3 dogs in the house. Hopefully we'll get to go visit them in Missoula sometime soon since it's not really that far away now.

Tomorrow they do the inspection on our house. I guess I can say "our house" since we've got a signed offer on it and are just trying to go through all the steps now to get into it. We'll go over there while the inspector does his work and see and hear what he thinks about everything -- hopefully no bad surprises! I'm eager to start doing some of the things to the house that will need done. I plan to carefully measure some floors and the kitchen area so that I can get materials and such lined up before we take possession.

Yesterday we saw the new "Pirates of the Carribean" movie. Pretty fun, but maybe not as good of a story as the first one. Then again, they were only telling half of their story in this release and now you have to wait to see the next installment. We were trying to see whether Caleb & Levi should be allowed to see it yet and probably will hold off since there are more scary-looking creatures/people(?) and tense scenes this time around. Didn't seem quite as funny as the first one either.

Lani is off shopping with her sister at Mervyns (they still have them here) and I think I'll take Molly for a jog through Laurelhurst Park. It's sunny, 87 degrees with 38% humidity; it beckons one to be outdoors. . .

Check out Laurelhurst Park at:
http://www.portlandonline.com/parks/finder/index.cfm?action=ViewPark&PropertyID=224&c=38308

House deal

Looks like we'll be homeowners once again! We reached an agreement on our offer for a house and now the wheels are in motion to get things done. We're shooting for a closing near the first of August which would give me a little time to do some work on the place before school starts here.

The house address is right by the school I'll be teaching at in Gresham, OR and it's MLS #6047012. You can see it online at:
http://www.rmls.com/RC2/UI/search_mlsnumber.asp
and then put the number in there. We'll need to do new flooring in the entry, kitchen, bathrooms, and laundry room plus some minor reworking of doors and walls in the basement (it was a rental property since the late 80's and at times the basement was sub-let, so it has separate doors to the garage/upstairs, etc; we plan to take out four doors!). The main work will involve pretty much gutting the kitchen, removing a wall between the kitchen and dining, & then installing new cabinets, counters, and flooring. And most all of the light fixtures are pretty dated. I'm ready to start working on it, but will have to be patient and wait for about a month!

Tomorrow we plan to go to the big 4th of July celebration at Ft. Vancouver, WA (just over the Columbia River in Washington). It's always touted as the biggest fireworks show west of the Mississippi and there are huge crowds, bands playing on a main stage starting about noon, lots of vendors, etc. We'll head over there about 2 pm with the Dalzell-Wagner-Maki clan (17 from this house) and meet about 40 or so friends. Note to Texas friends: it'll be about 85-90 during the afternoon, but drop to the low 60s by fireworks time, so you have to bring sweatshirts &/or blankets!

Made an offer. . .

This morning we looked again at a house right by where I'll be teaching and then wrote up an offer! Now we're just waiting to see if they accept it, or counter, or. . .

Lani's mom, Gladys, is here and Brian & Eryann Maki (and their kids, Orion & Jaden) get here tomorrow. All will be here through the 4th of July. Should be good family time, lots of card-playing, lots of cousins running around all over!

Next steps here

Yesterday Lani accepted a half-time job with the David Douglas Schools as an elementary TAG ("Talented and Gifted") teacher. It's something she is looking forward to doing and is good at! We're hoping that she might pick up a half-time job-share with another teacher or at least be able to sub on her open days too. (Also yesterday her sister, Shauna, with whom we're staying, accepted a job to work at Womack Auto Body -- so both sisters were blessed with jobs on the same day.)

I met with a mortgage broker and laid out our financial scenario with him to see if we could qualify for a loan for a house that we're interested in. It's uncomfortable to have to openly discuss the good & bad of our finances. We have not always been the best money managers and are still trying to pay off some old debts. And housing is much more expensive here. Our house in Tomball would easily sell for double here and so we just couldn't afford it if we were looking at it here. We have found a 70's-style, tri-level that is just one block from where I'll work (so Caleb, Levi, and I could walk each day) that we could probably get for about $265,000. It seems like a ton of money, but we're just not finding anything much cheaper that we can fit in. This house has been a rental since the late 80's, so the yard looks somewhat neglected and it has some cosmetic flaws that we'd have to work on, but overall it could work for us. Now we'll just wait and see now how the financing goes.

Finally, a bit of news to celebrate. My great aunt, Lois Dalzell, turns 100 years old today! She lives in Fresno, CA and this weekend a bunch of relatives will be there to have a party in her honor. She has been a spunky, talented, strong, encouraging woman for most of her life and has only just in the last couple of years seemed to slip quite a bit in her mental & physical capacities. I'm thankful for the ways that has blessed so many people throughout her long life.

Thanks for your prayers and encouraging words, friends!

Decisions, decisions. . .

Lani & I are stressing a bit over several decisions before us:
Lani's job situation -- she has a half-time offer that she could still probably take, but financially we'd be much better off with a full-time job (yet, will one be available?). She also could take a job at a private school, Portland Christian, and then our kids could go there for free, but she'd make just a little more than half of what a public school job would pay. Then again, should we send our kids there instead of to public school? We're just not sure what to do here (and need to decide really soon!).

Where to live -- we've looked at some houses (all of which are much more expensive than our home in Tomball) and have found one or two that could work. We've also learned of a couple of rentals that we could probably get right into. So, do we rent a house and try to pay off some debts and save more toward a house, or do we do what we can to get into a house now (since prices here are jumping up higher and higher all the time)? Another tough decision before us.

Just thought I'd share what we're stuggling with and ask for your prayers.

We had a really nice time over the weekend at the Columbia Christian/Cascade College 50th Anniversary Reunion. It was great to see so many old friends (and their kids), to sing in the alumni choir, and to just get reconnected with lots of classmates, teachers, and friends.

We went to church yesterday at the East County Church of Christ and it was a bit strange to be in a church that we've never been a part of and yet know about 2/3 of the people. They mentioned a number of people who were being considered as elders and I think I knew them all. Afterward we enjoyed lunch with three families that are very good friends.

Life in Portland

Well now that we've been here over a week, I should mention how things are going and what we're up to.

We've settled in a bit here with the Wagners and it seems like our kids are enjoying playing every day with their cousins. Hannah and Micah went to Sr. Teen Camp this week at Camp Yamhill. Caleb and his cousin, Makinna, will go to 3rd & 4th grade camp next week (and Hannah will be a counselor there).

We've visited two churches, Renovatus and Crossroads, and plan to visit many more including Abundant Life, Rolling Hills Community, East County C of C, and probably more. It's nice to be able to try several places, but I look forward to plugging in and "belonging" somewhere.

Lani and I have been looking around at houses, both online and just driving around. We've got a bit of sticker shock as we realize that our home in Tomball would cost about double here in Portland (and we can't really afford that!). Once Lani has a job, we'll see what we qualify for in a mortgage and how outrageous the payments will be (!) and then hopefully be ready to be seriously shopping. We're looking mostly at homes in Gresham or out that way from Portland.

Lani did have a half-time job offer to teach TAG in the David Douglas schools, but she has now turned that down as we feel that we'll really need her full-time income to make everything work. I know she'll make a great teacher somewhere, but it's proving difficult to get an interview.

Our house officially "closed" in Tomball and I was notified this morning that we've now dispersed the funds and everything is done. That's a blessing.

Later this week is the Cascade/Columbia Christian College Reunion and it sounds like it will be a fun event. We're looking forward to see lots of old friends, classmates, teachers, and supporters. This year marks my 20th year since college graduation and 25th since H.S. and my H.S. classmates are having a little get-together in conjunction with this larger college reunion. I'm leading worship in chapel Friday morning and have been OK'd to use a praise team for my part (two other guys are also leading parts, Tom Buchanon and Tracey Edson).

And today's closing news: Levi got sick this morning and threw up near the toilet -- he almost made it there. He seems fine now, so hopefully it's not a major stomach bug.

Every day has it's blessings and challenges!

New cell numbers

Here are our new cell phone numbers:
Dan: 503-927-2210
Lani: 503-927-2211
Hannah: 503-927-2212

I was happy to get consecutive numbers for us, but disappointed that they have no forwarding service at all (so if you call our old numbers you will not reach anyone or anything at all).

Lani interviewed for a job today, but I'm not sure when she'll hear back about it.

Today was the last day of school for my two neices here, Makinna & Lydii Wagner (and all of Portland Public Schools). Most districts here finish up this week, although the district I'll be working in doesn't finish until next week. Teachers & kids here are celebrating Summer (even though it's in the 60's)!

Next steps

We got our two trucks unloaded with help from family & friends here. Somehow we packed most everything from two solidly fillled 26' trucks into one 10' x 30' storage unit (and I mean PACKED! No chance of running by the storage and just pulling something out!).

We have an interesting situation before us for tomorrow: for the first time in most all of my life, I do not have any attachment to a particular church and so we're not sure where we'll go in the morning for services. It's kind of fun and exciting to just be able to visit wherever we'd like for the next few weeks, but at the same time it's a little strange to not have a place -- a church family -- where you belong.

Lani is excited because she got called yesterday for an interview in the David Douglas School District for a special TAG teaching position (in Texas they'd call it "GT"). She would love to get this job for many reasons (it's a good district, we need the income, etc.), but really is just totally excited about the possibility of teaching "Talented and Gifted" learners. She's trying to review and refresh her memory about things she has learned about working with these exceptional, creative kids. Her interview is this coming Wednesday, so keep her in your prayers.

We had fun viewing Portland's "Rose Parade" this morning. It was a beautiful day here and lots of people came out for this big annual event. We sat among a bunch of friends and enjoyed the floats, bands, horses, pooper scoopers, and everything else. In our previous Portland years we were regular parade-goers and it just seemed natural to be back here doing it all again.